Saturday, July 12, 2008

the DISC thingi...

i just did the DISC thingi... basically it is a testing to discover what type of people u are... and you all can get it from SSD...

and................... after the test, my primary styles is STEADINESS, secondary style is INFLUENCE. let me explain what they are...

Steadiness, another term= amiable, supporter

Emphasis: Maintaining the environment to carry out specific tasks

Key to Motivation: Appreciation

Basic Intent: To support

The "S" quadrant person thrives in a relaxed, friendly atmosphere without much pressure, one that offers security, limited territory, predictable routine, and credit for work accomplished.

You are usually amiable. easy-going, warm-hearted, home-loving, and neighborly. On the other hand, you may be undemonstrative ad controlled. You conceal your feelings and sometimes hold a grudge.

Most of the time S people are even-tempered, low-key, emotionally mature, unobtrusive. You are generally content with the status quo and prone to leniency with yourself and others.

S people dislike change. once under way, you work steadily and patiently, and you dislike deadlines. You are usually very possessive and develop strong attachments for your things, your family, your department, your position.

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Influence, other terms= expressive, persuader

Emphasis: Creating the environment by motivating and aligning others to accomplish results.

Key to motivation: recognition

Basic Intent: To Persuade

"I" quadrant people thrive on social contact, one-on-one situations, and freedom from control and detail. I's are friendly outgoing, persuasive, and confident.

Your basic interest is people. You are poised and meet strangers well. People seem to respond to you naturally, and you usually have a wide range of acquaintances. Your innate optimism and people skills help you get along with most people, including competitors.

Often very fashionable dressers, I's join organizations for prestige and personal recognition.

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My style:
* avoid conflict
* tends to internalize stress
* releases stress by sleeping
* recovery from emotional stress by taking time to do non threatening routine, activities. eg. watch tv
* conscious of feelings
* tries to avoid hurting
* avoids conflict and stirring up controversy
* ensure follow through
* offers support
* good people skills, good team player or leader
* may sacrifice result for harmony, reluctant to initiate
* relationship appreciation
* spend time in personal interaction, sometimes to the detriment of the task
* communication= two way flow, good listener
* relational, make decisions more slowly, due to input from others
* behavior under tension, acquiesces


resources from the DISC paper...

Semester 2 countdown...

roughly 28 hours to go...for semester 2... cant wait no longer... i think study is better than just stay in the room, eat, computer, drink, sleep...

and welcome back my roommate from his ONE month happy holiday... his skin color turned darker... and i think this skin color suit him... i mean better than fair fair skin for a guy... and this is so because he went to an island... i forgot what's that island... whatever... it is an island...

im so happy that i made many frens in the gym... in the dance class... the only two which i managed to remember their name is ida and felicia... yea, hope i remember the right name... and just now we had a partner routine... haha... it was a fun routine to work with your partner... and my partner is felicia... at first when we were told to find a partner, i really dont know who to pick... and then this girl named felicia came to me, and surprisingly she knew my name, i think most probably know from ida... whatever... we started our step... step by step until the end... fun n enjoy,,, that are the words that i can use to describe it...felicia and i are so proud to be asked to dance for one round in front of everyone, and the other follow us... haha... so happy... luckily both of us can finish the step smoothly and with a little bit of chemistry between us when dance.... nice....

and in between the time waiting for another dance class, ida, me, felicia, and other sis and bro which i cant remember their name ask for the song Feedback by janet jackson... and we dance the previous routine together while waiting other to come in for the next class... haha... fun... n i finally remember the step after remark the steps with other... other people just be our audience in the studio while we performing... haha...

and i got blister under my foot.... super annoying... hope it disappear asap...

Happy END Haha END Enjoy END

Thursday, July 10, 2008

everything back to normal...

im pretty fine right now...after the sudden heart-attacked incident...

sad? yea, i do... and im seriously, tremendously and extremely surprise that my very best fren would able say out those hurting people's feeling words to his fren...actually that was not a very serious point... the thing that i cannot tahan the most was when he say something bad about my parents... yea, my mum and dad.... and that was not the first time... last few times i still can tahan.... but that night he was too over dy... i dont think that is the right way to show how much you HATE your fren's parents... i dont know how will i act if you say that right in front of me... u're lucky man... it's kind of hurt you know, to say that directly to me, i mean in such an unpredicted moment... anywhere, i will still treat him as my fren... but i wonder he still treat me as his fren... since he hate my parents so much... and if he really wanna hate my parents that much... i hope he can hate me that much too... and hating me really make u feel better, i will say go ahead man... and i dont care bout that actually... i treat people the way i wan and who care how they treat me back... as long as im happy with what im doing... and i dont lost anything also... he is the one to lost his fren if he dont treat me as his fren anymore....haha...
and i wanna thank Xiao O here... yea, this part is special for u, XIAO O... thank for ur help that night... i appreciate it a lot... "people have the right to say what they wan, and let they crapping on their on, dont care bout what they say, just live your life happily"... yea, i got it now... thanks...haha....hahaha....
long time never use haha dy... i should use more haha rather than fucking here and there...
so....HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH

just know im back to badminton with sie khai after a long long time i kept my racket in my wardrobe... and i made a new fren with a mufy march intake indian guy... he is kind of funny guy i ever met who kept on aiksss here and there while playing badminton...haha... and both of us are left-handed too... so qiao... but i cant remember his name... haha... to difficult to remember people's name for me... and i got another new unit mate from pakistan (if no wrong) which i cant remember his name also... he is much more better than another two indian guys in my unit... haha... the two indian guys always bring in their other indian frens who then crapping in tamil which is alien language to me... always on their indian songs so loud until the whole apartment can hear there indian song... and their room so smelly...i dont mean that my room have a nice smell, but, it's much more better than theirs... and the indian guys always wear their shoe in the 'house'... i think they never been taught to open their shoes first before heading to their room...haiz... so pity for the pakistan unit mate to stay at the same room with the indian guys...haha

HAHA END HAHA END HAHA END

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

gonna die soon

GONNA DIE SOOOOOONNNNNNNNNN

FUCKING bored!!!!!!!!

FUCKING tire because of~~~ BORING-NESS!!!!

FUCKING free until dont know what to do...

FUCKING stupid to go shopping by myself!!!!

Fucking lonely here....

lonely...Im Mr. Lonely
I have nobody...

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