Hmmm... I was chatting with fren, well ex gf actually, on msn. She is not a computer person, but has been online quite often lately. So, we were chatting about this n that. Then suddenly she came out with the question
"Why do most BF do not like their GF's ex?"
My answer was...
"Because it's the matter of securing their current position".... which is so true for those who lack of confident. After that she continue to ask why need to secure as she still don't get it. Well this happened in her current relationship whereby her bf don't like me. This is kinda sad for her actually, and god know she don't like that too. But, she can't do anything besides explaining.
So, after all that, I told her she might just as well let it be, it's not up to her to change his perception toward me anyways. Rather, it's him to control whatever feeling toward me. So, instead of risking to save me a lil bit in this situation, it would be better she work on building up their confident in their current condition. And, I knew they did pretty well so far.
So, I was then jokingly ask whether I can add him up in FB though I know the appropriate way would be not to. Anyways, comes her response "better not to" as expected. haha So, that way I ended this topic with her.
I'm kind of miss her now. After all, the 400 days with her was such a memory of a lifetime. I miss her sushi, her maggi mee style, her smile, her tears, her voice, her short hair, her long hair, her small lil palm which share a lil bit of my palm's sweat, her...............................................................
Back to May when I returned hometown for my Sis's wedding......
I was looking at all the home deco that I used to take care of in the TV set cabinet, and I found the section where I kept quite a number of the belongings during the sweet time with her. That reminds me of so many pictures when we were together. Hmm... I seriously do keep some, well not all, of the things that she gave me... including some of the most memorable lil things: the little turtle, the keychain that she made for me, though it's not in its perfect shape dy... the half of the black n white pig.... hmm...
I doubt she will read on this, but if you do, SW, may I know, do you still keep all the things that I gave u? just out of curious
Anyways, best of luck to you both.
